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Wild Woman Retreat: Reclaiming Power, Beauty, & Soul Radiance in the Second Half of Life
The Threshold Awaits–Whether you're in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, there comes a time when you find yourself standing at a mysterious edge—not quite who you once were, not yet who you're becoming. This immersive retreat invites you into that liminal space. A place between stories. A sacred threshold where the cultural scripts about aging fall away, and something deeper and wiser begins to stir.
Check In: 4PM
Check Out: 11AM
Tuition:
Treehaus Twin:$1349
Treehaus Queen: $1399
Early Bird Pricing: $100 off until October 27th
Please Note: This is a private group retreat, and all reservations must be made directly through the Group Leader. Booking is not available through our website. Please click the button to book directly through the Group Leader’s site.
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Class description
What We’ll Explore Together
Healing the Aging Wound
We’ll gently excavate the messages that have taught us to fear aging and alchemize them through shadow work, ritual, and honest reflection. Together, we’ll reclaim aging as a path to power, beauty, and embodied wisdom.
Plant-Powered Beauty & Seasonal Self-Care
Together, we will explore beauty practices through the lens of adornment and self-care, not as something we must engage in to look younger. Learn to tend your changing body and skin with grace and ritual, rooted in the cycles of nature and the wisdom of herbs.
The Soul of Midlife: Wisdom Keeper Practices
Through guided inner journeys, ancestral reflection, and future-self dialogues, you’ll harvest the hard-won wisdom of your life thus far and envision what wants to come next. You’ll leave with tools to navigate this life stage with clarity, confidence, and soul alignment.
Your Retreat Experience
Each day flows from deep inner work to hands-on creativity to nourishing community connection.
- Mornings: Guided practices in shadow work, journaling, and wisdom retrieval
- Afternoons: Herbal beauty crafting, face and body care ritual, lessons on building your own beauty apothecary.
- Evenings: Firelight storytelling, sacred integration, and circle sharing
Who This Is For
Women who feel the stirrings of change and want to meet them with power, not fear.
Women ready to break up with age shame and rewrite their relationship to beauty and visibility.
Women who crave depth, truth, creativity, and sisterhood as they cross this threshold.
*This retreat will be offered to women, women identifying individuals, and non-binary people who are comfortable in a space that centers the experience of women.
The Invitation
Come as you are. Your lines, softness, silver strands and full hearts are welcome. Leave with a new way of seeing yourself: radiant, resourced, and rooted in your own story.
biography
Hilary Buckwalter-Wilde is the founder of Indwelling. Through Indwelling she offers Sacred Counsel, workshops, and retreats. She specializes in trauma healing, complex grief, narcissistic abuse recovery, and somatic psychology through a holistic and trauma informed lens.
Hilary has a master's in Advocacy and Political Leadership from the University of Minnesota-Duluth, a second master's degree in Depth Psychology with specialization in Jungian and Archetypal Studies. In 2023, she paused her dissertation to pursue a third master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Walden University, and is currently in the internship phase at Lakeview Behavioral Health working as a mental health professional.
Hilary lives in Duluth with her daughter and their two black cats near the shore of Lake Superior. When she’s not engaged in teaching or working with clients, she enjoys camping, foraging, traveling, and spending time in nature.
Allegra Kay brings a unique blend of Sacred Counsel, herbalism, and holistic beauty expertise to support women navigating life's transformations. Her practice weaves together the wisdom of plant medicine, the nurturing art of skincare, and the deep listening of Sacred Counsel to create an integrated approach to healing and renewal.
Allegra is a certified herbalist, holistic esthetician and a Sacred Counsel guide. She lives in southern Minnesota and is a single mom to a teenage son.
Supply List
journal, pen, comfort items